Sailing Etiquette

Nautical etiquette has been developed over hundreds of years; it's a combination of real norms and unwritten rules that define how anyone on board a boat should behave.
Seen through the eyes of someone who's never been aboard, sailing etiquette may seem like something from another era, a bygone era. In reality, the opposite is true; those unwritten rules are still very much alive and well today and considered fundamental by those who truly "live" sailing. Of course, we're not talking about mere aesthetics, but rather rules of behavior and respect for all onboard personnel and the sea. Yes, because the etiquette of a good sailor also includes respect for the sea, both in port and at sea.
So, if you've been invited aboard, this guide to sailing etiquette can be the way to ensure your first time isn't your last.
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What not to do on a boat? Rules of etiquette for being a welcome guest.

Following the right rules of etiquette when you're a guest is never a given, especially when you're invited to spend time on a boat.
Limited space, changeable weather conditions, and limited resources require us to pay attention to details that we might normally consider negligible but are essential when sailing. Only in this way can we ensure a pleasant experience and, above all, avoid uncomfortable situations for ourselves and other guests.

 

GENERAL ETIQUETTE RULES:

1 – Arrive on time for boarding.

2 – Before boarding, remember to remove your shoes. Wait until you're told when you can board, or even better: ask permission to board.​
3 – Sunscreen should be applied before boarding. In case you need to reapply, bring a towel and be careful not to stain the upholstery or fiberglass.

4 – Even if it's a simple speedboat trip, find out in advance what supplies are needed for the trip, and always bring water with you. For longer trips, on boats where meals are served, it's essential to have clear rules. The guest should bring a gift to thank them for their hospitality, such as a bottle of quality wine.

5 – If you're invited to a launching ceremony, find out whether there will be a maiden voyage or not, and dress accordingly. Remember to bring a gift for the occasion. Champagne or themed antiques, such as a compass or a map of the area where the vessel is docked, are usually appreciated.

6 – If the cruise includes travel to foreign ports, make sure you have all the necessary documents with you.

7 – Due to space constraints, hard-sided suitcases are not permitted on board; only backpacks and soft bags are permitted. Always ask where you can store your belongings, and keep your personal belongings grouped together so as not to create clutter in the common areas.

8 – Always ask for your assigned seat and move promptly if asked to do so. Especially on sailboats or small boats, the balance of the crew's seating is crucial for a successful navigation. Also, always remember to check that your legs are not blocking the passageway or impeding the maneuverers.

9 – Respect other crew members and remember that the captain is always in charge: if smoking is prohibited, do not smoke; if silence is requested, remain silent; if you soil something with food or drink, clean up the mess yourself; under no circumstances is it permitted to throw garbage into the sea.

10 – Be available to assist with boat operations if requested.

11 – If you are accompanied by children, keep them under close supervision and do not let them move around the boat unattended. Do not allow them to move objects, touch electronic equipment, or mess with lines and cables.

12 – When disembarking, apply the same principles as when boarding. Wait until you are told when it is the right time to disembark; if the boat is far away or rocking, wait. Ask those on the boat to hand you bags and personal belongings once you reach the dock. Do not make sudden movements that could cause you to lose your balance.
13 - Do not go down to the deck (inside the boat) without the captain's permission.

14 - Do not camp or lie down on the dinette (interior sofas), and do not put your feet up. You are not at home, and you would never go to someone's house with your feet up on the sofa, so don't do it on a boat either.

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Article by https://www.elisamotterle.com/galateo-in-barca/

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THE BASIC RULES:
• Maintain a sober and elegant demeanor on board, avoiding loud conversations, especially when in port.
• When leaving port early in the morning, avoid making unnecessary noise and disturbance, so as not to disturb others resting on board.
• Be cooperative on board, always maintaining a positive, friendly, and helpful attitude toward other crew members.
• Be courteous; a distinguished but not arrogant demeanor is welcome; elegant manners are certainly desirable for life on board.
• Do not litter; nothing should be thrown into the water, and if we find any waste, it should be hauled aboard and disposed of at the first available port.
• Cleanliness: Keep your cabin and the boat clean.
• Respect other people's space and arrange your personal belongings in an orderly manner.

• Water Rationing: Be aware of the importance of rationing fresh water on board.

• Avoid high heels and shoes.

Crew Education: The captain will ensure that the crew is trained to respect the rules of the ship.

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Boating etiquette: how to dress.
The dress code on a boat depends on the occasion. Those who have never sailed might easily think that a boat trip is synonymous with sunbathing in a swimsuit and sipping cocktails in a sarong.
In reality, out at sea, especially on a sailboat, you're exposed to very strong winds as well as the splashes of the waves. So, when packing for your cruise, consider casual and comfortable clothing. Also, remember to come prepared to protect yourself from both cold winds and rain, as well as a fair amount of sun. A technical windbreaker and hat are essential. A swimsuit will be useful for a dip, but remember to cover up while sailing to avoid sunburn.
Footwear is another matter: high heels are banned on boats, and the type of shoes you wear depends greatly on the type of vessel you're on. On a Friulian cruise ship, espadrilles, sandals, and sneakers, or even unlined moccasins are the right choice. On a friend's boat, we'll choose shoes with good grip and white soles to avoid dirtying the deck.

During a sailing vacation, we'll spend much of our time barefoot, so remember to get a thorough pedicure before departure.

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TIPS to the Captain - Skipper
• On board, it's good practice to tip the captain and crew. You can leave a tip at the end of the tour/cruise.

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